Variation Venus

I understand that the concept of the Tooth Fairy can be confusing for some parents. On one hand, it can be seen as a fun and harmless way to celebrate a child’s milestone.

However, it may raise questions about the ethics of lying to children.
I completely understand that childhood is a precious time that passes all too quickly. It’s okay to indulge in make-believe and pretend play because it allows you to explore your imagination and creativity.

So enjoy this particular time in your life to the fullest! It’s not lying since it’s just pretending. As children develop, they learn more about the world and understand fiction, nonfiction, and fantasy.

Let’s say a parent tells a child that the tooth fairy is real to make them feel special about losing a tooth and to give them a tooth. It’s also fun for the parent to bond with their child and give them a special moment.

The problem arises when the child discovers the tooth fairy isn’t real. The adult or parent starts to either get upset or tries to gaslight the child into believing fiction by telling them they are wrong with the misguided sense that they no longer have something to bond over.

If the child has figured it out, the adult should say to the truth and the reason why it was told. It will then be up to the child to continue playing along.

I understand that change can be difficult, but it’s important to remember that it’s a natural part of growing and developing, no matter what stage of life you’re in.